Am i gay if i like anal
I love anal sex. Does that make me gay?
Michael7771
I absolutely adore anal sex. I only ever receive and not interested in giving at all.
I have had sex with men several times but being married it's not always easy.. I now use the Renegade Meat Monster dildo off Lovehoney for my main pleasure. I can obtain around ten inches up and love the dense full feeling it gives me. Problem is I just feel that I want some form of anal all the age. I also enjoy giving men oral if I ever get chance.
As I said I'm married and love my wife. I don't fancy men I do prefer women but I think I receive more pleasure from anal sex than sex with my wife.
I usually describe myself as bi sexual but I'm not sure if that's exact or if in truth I'm gay and daren"t admit it. I would actually like regular sex with a regular male partner if I could ever sort that.
Any thoughts?
Eager-2-Please2
The way I see it, you can enjoy any kind of sensation/pleasure with very minute or no attached gender/sexuality to it.
Liking anal sex does not, in and of itself, produce you gay. Liking and wanting sex with the same gender does build you gay, however.
You said that you adore your wife and like women
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